有一只小猴子, 肚肚被树枝划伤了,流了很多血。 它见到一个猴子朋友就扒开伤口说, 你看我的伤口 ,好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它, 同情它, 告诉它不同的治疗方法它就继续给朋友们看伤口。 继续听取意见,后来它感染死掉了。 一个老猴子说, 它是自己伤自己而死的。
痛,说一次就复习一次。
有一只小猴子, 肚肚被树枝划伤了,流了很多血。 它见到一个猴子朋友就扒开伤口说, 你看我的伤口 ,好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它, 同情它, 告诉它不同的治疗方法它就继续给朋友们看伤口。 继续听取意见,后来它感染死掉了。 一个老猴子说, 它是自己伤自己而死的。
痛,说一次就复习一次。
To anyone with kids of any age, here's some advice. Bill Gates said about 11 things those did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.
Rule 1: Life is not fair -- get used to it!
Rule 2: The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping -- they called it opportunity.
Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.
Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.
总有人问我: 有对象吗?
“呵呵 没有”
“不会吧 不可能吧”
其实 那是真的
不是没人追
没人要
也不是自己的眼光太高
没有条件合适的
只是没感觉 就这么简单而已
喜欢自己的自己没感觉 自己喜欢的可能早已心有所属。
有时候会想谈一场恋爱 让自己不那么寂寞
可是过后想想
还是不想因为想谈恋爱而谈恋爱
我总觉得如果是对的人 我们总会相遇。
世界那么大人那么多
在茫茫人海中等待真正能对上眼的人
机会何等小 也许在别人眼里
觉得这样是傻 但是 总对得起自己的心
前世500次得回头换来今生的一次擦身而过
不想去欺骗别人 也不想骗自己
不想轻易的开始一段感情 再轻易的结束它
如果我们有一个不算太糟的开场
我也就希望我们的结局不会太匆促
不管结局美不美好 老来再想
也不算是一种遗憾吧
时常遇到一些不错的人
条件不错 人品不错
唯独就差了感觉
我还是会说:
"对不起 我们不合适"
尊重自己的感情也不浪费别人的时间
如果对方觉得可以做朋友 我当然乐意
但是想要改变我的想法
对不起
轻易的开始 无谓的结束
没有心动的感觉
只是无聊时候的消遣而已
伤害过一些人 也被人伤过
想简简单单过日子
有没有一个人,
会让不那么爱发短信的你时刻拿着手机?
最怕的情况就是手机没电,
时常看看有没有短信 看看FACEBOOK有没有留言
有的时候会很高兴, 没有会有一些小失落...
有没有一个人,
每天不跟他说说话就觉得不对劲?
人家一改facebook状态你就开始胡思乱想 ?
有没有一个人,
会让你在FACEBOOK分组上把他分到单独的组别?
会让自己觉得他跟别人是不一样的, 会想他是不是也把我单独放到一组了呢?
有没有一个人,
即使他身边有了别人,
你还是不愿就这么放弃?
有没有一个人,
会让你每天晚上等着他的"晚安"
因为你们都知道 晚安就是我爱你 爱你的意思?

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要 宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照 能愿意为了一份爱 付出去多少 然后得到多少并不计较 当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好 放手去爱 海阔天高